What respect really is ?

Respect is what? How will we recognize respect? Is it external appearance or the body language? Is it fear or something else? In a country like Bangladesh the respect is nothing but FEAR. If u smoke cigarette before an elderly person then you are nothing but impolite. But is that so?
If you keep long hair for style or whatever the reason is, in our country you will be regarded as impolite or plebeian. The million dollar question is what is the problem? Can a long hair even harm a fly? A person who usually smoke, if he come across of an elderly person he has to banned off the cigarette. But is it good? In fact the tendency of hiding something natural is not good for anyone. It can be harmful for the mental health of that person.

If you ask someone why smoke in front of an elderly person or keep long hair is a sign of impoliteness? And ask him answer logically, be sure he will fail to answer. Not only he, anyone of this world will fail to answer that logically. Because there is no logical answer to refute this question.

Whom should i respect to?Is that the age of a person that he spent before my birth or the giving of something that someone deserve? If we have to respect the elderly people then i have to respect Hitler also.But is he a person of respect? If a bad person of your area is elderly than you,what will your expression after looking at him?Will you respect him or ignore him at the first glance?For sure you will do the latter.Then what are we respecting actually?

What we need is CHANGE.The wind of change.We need educated person.Not that every literate person is educated.We don't need literate person but we need more educated person.An literate person is not capable off giving anything to the nation where an educated person certainly can.Anyone can be literate but not everyone can be an educated.We hope one day the fear in the name of respect will be only myth.

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